The dancer I had observed earlier is a skinny 21-year-old who could have passed for a boy in his early teens. He is the provider for his parents and four siblings with a minimum wage job at a fast-food outlet. He struggles to make ends meet and spends all his time at work. “My friends distanced themselves from me, and I feel very alone.” He had been fired from a previous job because of his diabetes which supposedly made him unreliable. He lied about having no medical conditions to get his current job, and fears being fired if they discover his diabetes. “I want to work hard to provide for my family and afford my diabetes (supplies). I think I might die if I work as hard as it is necessary to afford my diabetes. It’s a lose-lose.”
Other campers also told me of their social struggles, loneliness and the devastating emotional toll of being a burden on their family. However, all campers seemed to benefit from being in a room full of individuals like them where sharing, understanding, and support for diabetes was welcome. There was also a session in which campers were encouraged to talk or write about their emotions or express themselves through artwork. They learned they were not alone and that it was okay to feel sad sometimes. I became aware that friendships between the campers was growing. At dinner-time on the second night, campers were laughing, joking, singing and posing for photos.
On the final morning, the campers darted between team-challenge activities – splashing in the pool, scribbling down answers and wearing smiles that had grown considerably. It won’t be the HbA1c results that I remember years on, but the evolving friendships, the transformations I witnessed in campers, and what camps can offer children and young adults with diabetes.
Social support changes the attitude a person has towards their diabetes and is invaluable to their well-being. This is what a 12-year-old said when I asked
“Does anyone treat you differently because of your diabetes?”
“I am closer to my friends. My friends help me, they remind me to check my sugar. My parents have a hard time finding money, but I tell them every problem can be solved. I will work hard in school now and when I am old enough, I will be a doctor.”
Acknowledgements
- Philippines Department of Health (DOH 7) and Dr Marion Denopol
- Sunshine Summer Camp campers, nurses, diabetes educators and volunteers
- Sweet Alert Society Inc.: Advocacy “Diabetes Prevention through Education”
- Insulin For Life (Global and Australia)